Why Is a Player Exciting - But Not Good For You?

Why is a player exciting?

• Because of his/her good looks, s/he seems to be a real good catch. Who doesn't want to walk beside the most gorgeous creature on your side of the planet, right?
• S/He knows the right places to go.
• S/He may make you feel that you are the luckiest wo/man alive for winning his/her love and affection. And by feeling that you are so lucky to have him/her by your side, you get to be proud of yourself by winning such a wonderful prize.
• The competition is stiff. Even if you are the "it" guy/girl right now, that doesn't give you the assurance that s/he will always be by your side. That's why you keep on doing things which you believe are capable of making him/her stay.
• Making him/her happy is always like a prize you need to win.
• S/He exposes you to wonders you've never experienced before. These things make him/her more addictive as s/he can possibly be.

Why is a player not good for you?

A player is not good for anyone (for that matter) because a player is someone who is born to break people's hearts. No matter how hard you try, how much effort you exert, you will never be good enough. S/He will keep on looking around. S/He will keep on having affairs with others. A player takes pride of how many wo/men have cried over him/her. S/He will never take you as someone s/he will be with for the rest of his/her life. When someone better comes along, expect that you'll be ditched at any second - without a single drop of hesitation. You will always be a booty call no matter how sincere your love is for him/her. Falling for a player spells disaster.