Saturday, September 4, 2010

How to Make A Guy Jealous?


Most people agree that women and men are entirely different beings with different behaviors. What makes a woman jealous may not necessarily bother a man. Help your guy remember why he was attracted to you in the first place with a few male-directed tactics. Make a guy jealous with a little thought and effort but a whole lot of rewards.


Instructions:

1.) Keep it simple and trust your instincts. Men are generally creatures of habit. If you have an idea of what might fire up feelings of jealousy in him, you're probably right.

2.) Size up your guy or the guy you want to get. Determine what his insecurities and aspirations are with some casual conversation. Ask a lot of questions. Guys usually are happy to talk about themselves when someone seems very interested, so don't worry about asking too many questions.

3.) Lose weight or get a makeover if necessary. A guy won't be jealous unless he wants what someone else does. Unfortunately, this may mean you have to change yourself a little to accomplish your goal of making him jealous.

4.) Throw yourself into your hobbies or spend time with friends. Keep your calendar full. Tell him you have plans when he calls, even if that may be a fib.

5.) Date someone else. Try to find a guy who is able to accomplish what your guy only dreams of, but really any slightly attractive man will do. If you're exclusively dating the guy you'd like to make jealous, get a guy friend instead.

6.) Be nice. Always be friendly and upbeat. If your life is a bed of roses, he'll want to share your success too.

7.) Forget about playing dating games and just be yourself. Confidence is a turn on for most guys and if you have it, that could make them jealous if they aren't dating you yet.

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How to Make Your Crush Fall in Love With You! Here Are the Easy Ways to Get it Right Always


Every time you look at him your heart begins to pound and you can't tear your eyes away. This is the usual reaction when one sees the hunk one has a crush on! The issue is how to make your crush fall back in love with you. It's not so hard when you follow these tips that will make him impressed enough to fall in love with you.




Don't try too hard

The bottom line here is to be yourself. If you blatantly ogle the guy he is going to feel uncomfortable and uneasy in your company. Studies show that men love girls who have the natural look so watch that make-up.

Too much make-up could turn your crush off. All you have to do is dress in a way that will impress him and make subtle overtures without being too obvious. It works.


Confidence is cool

Your attitude around the man you have a crush on is important. He has to notice that you are different. Be cool and confident without looking desperate. Make it a point to make him chase you instead.

You can do this by keeping your distance and limits. When your crush sees that you have class, he is going to try his best to keep you off limits to other guys. Be smart and keep his attention on you.



Keep him guessing

Sometimes it does your crush good to wonder if you may lose interest in him. The more you remain a mystery the more he will want to know about you. Once you are sure that he is interested in you, hook him good and proper by showing him that you love him.

Be exciting and look stunning every time you meet by wearing something sexy, alluring and tempting. While you are sure to catch the eye of other males make sure your crush knows that you have eyes only for him - he will adore you for that.



Make him your hero!

Nothing works better than making a man feel that he is your knight in shining armor. Though men do like women who are independent - they love feeling "macho" and being your hero. Being sensitive and allowing him to "protect" you will make him feel like he is truly needed and automatically draw him closer to you.

He will fall in love with you once he realizes how much you appreciate and love his abilities to care for you. Boost his ego once in a while and allow him to "teach" you certain things he is wonderful and great at - he won't be able to resist you.

what should you do in order to make your crush like you ?

Well most likely he probably stills has feelings for his ex but he thinks that he has feelings for someone else u might just be his eye candy but he doesn't want to say anything or does he?sometimes boys feel as though they can hold on to something longer than they need to .......so if ur crush hasn't said anything to u yet.then all of a sudden he does just by a simple hi girl just know that he's totally into u or wants to get 2 know u first either way girl he's ours especially if he cat  take his eyes off of u just know not to say anything to him first if u think he still has feelings for his crush u let him do that talking first --------->pink

How do you make your crush notice you?

1. When you walk past him give him your sexiest smile. Look at his eyes then just as your looking away smile. He'll know what your trying to do.



2. Tell his mate you like him. This may seem a bit outgoing but at least he'll know and he might like you back. Don't make a fool of yourself.


3. If you have social networking sites like Bebo, Facebook or MSN then start chatting to him on there; dnt go overboard on the kisses at the end tho. this might seem desperate.


4. Jealousy techinque- works every tym. OK, get friendly with his best mate and when they're together go and flirt with his mate right in front of him!! Will drive him crazy


5. Get yourself noticed! Make yourself look stunning or wear a quirky hat.

do i have a soulmate????

It is said that before each of us was created, we were one big soul. Forty days before our conception, G‑d took our "big soul" in His hands and he split it into two pieces. The work of finding our soul mate is finding our missing half.

So how do we find our other half? We have to first begin by perfecting our half. In other words, we have to really know ourselves and be the best "half" we can possibly be. Your soul mate is out there, that's not the question. The question is: are you where you need to be to find him? Are you recognizable to him? Don't forget, he's looking for you too.

As for the "guarantee," you want one of the most powerful things about being in a relationship is that there are no guarantees. Faith and trust are such huge components in a marriage for this very reason. That's why our Sages compare the love between a man and wife to a fire. It is not static or calm, nor is it certain. It's not supposed to be. That is the beauty of a committed relationship…allowing someone into the most vulnerable and hidden places of our hearts trusting our emotions will be well received.

is said that there are three partners in a marriage: the husband, the wife and G‑d. Until we meet our soulmate, it's just two partners… us and G‑d. This applies to that relationship as well. Because G‑d does not typically grant us a bird's eye view of His plans, we need to constantly bolster our relationship with faith and trust. We need to trust in our depths that He is guiding our steps towards our ultimate purpose, towards the "completion" of our soul.

Another strong component in marriage is communication. Communication is the essential ingredient to every healthy relationship. Since you are preparing to meet your life partner, it's important to practice communicating with your other partner, G‑d. Talk it out with Him. Some people call it prayer, but it could just as well be called communication.


Your "someone" is out there, looking for you. Be the best half-soul you can possibly be and G‑d willing, your steps will be guided towards each other sooner than you know it.

STEPS on how to find your soulmate

STEPS :

(1.) Be the person you would love to love. Instead of waiting for your soulmate to appear, make yourself the person you would like to find. Work on becoming the unique individual you're looking for. Just as you would want your soulmate to be comfortable in their own skin, work on just being yourself. You'll stand a better chance of getting noticed if you are comfortable, confident, and happy to be you. Expressing your individuality is the closest you can come to advertising your soulmate potential. Not only will you stand out, but you'll also be doing things that are more likely to bring you closer to your soulmate, who probably has similar interests and goals.

(2.) Remember that your soulmate might not be what you expect. If there's only one person in the world who can be your soulmate, what are the chances that they'll live in your town, look like the people you grew up with, or even speak the same language? Your soulmate does not have to live in the same country or even the same hemisphere as you. You don't have to be willing to span the globe for your true love, but you do need to be receptive to people with different backgrounds. Also, if you're expecting your soulmate to be love at first sight, you might never find what you're looking for. So keep an open mind. Part of the romance of having a soulmate is being pleasantly surprised.

(3.) Be patient. Life doesn't normally work on the schedule you envision. Your soulmate might cross your path when you're 8 or 80 years old. Don't be surprised either if there is a considerable age difference between the two of you. Yes, you might look forward to spending the majority of your life with your soulmate—perhaps buying a house, getting married, starting a family—but things do not always go as you plan. Your soulmate will color your world no matter how old you are, so don't rush into things, or else you might end up forcing the wrong person into the soulmate box, which will cause pain for everyone involved.(4.) Accept people for who they are, not who you want them to be. When you've got all these fantasies flying around in your head about how wonderful and special your soulmate will be, it can be easy to look for those specific characteristics and features in anyone you get involved with. Unfortunately, unrealistic expectations can ruin a relationship, and might even chase your soulmate away. Whoever it is that you think might be your soulmate, appreciate their individuality and trust that if this person is your soulmate, they'll never need to change who they are for you, just like you'll never need to change who you are for them. That doesn't mean that you can't encourage them to try something new or help them to grow as a person, just don't force things on them that they are not comfortable with.



 
(5.) Weather the storms. Contrary to what popular media would have you believe, meeting your soulmate doesn't guarantee "happily ever after." Things won't get easier when you find that special someone, and in fact, they might get even harder. Ultimately, a soulmate is someone with whom you can grow, and the only way to grow together is to face challenges together. So if you put your heart and soul into a relationship, stick with it through the ups and downs, even when you question whether it's meant to be, and you might look back decades later and realize that you were with your soulmate all along. True love with your soulmate does not grow on its own: it must be cultivated and continually nurtured. So be lovable, and be willing to love like there is no tomorrow.

why does love hurt so much


Love doesn't hurt, on the contrary, it is amazing! It is the absence of mutual love that hurts.


Love is a bond between two people that goes beyond logic and reason, one that overwhelms the mind and senses enough to do things that are aporiable. But when only one person out of these two have this emotion they might not realize that the other might not reciprocate and it is this naiveity that blinds them from the plain and simple truth that they might get hurt as if they were in a relationship that doesn't mean anything what so ever! When/if they do get hurt then they can't understand why this person, who apparently loved them, did what they did. The answer is quite simple: Either that other person doesn't reciprocate or they need reminding that what they are doing to those that they love the most is in fact hurting them! If they change their ways, at least enough to show that they desperately want to try, then they love you back. If they don't then they don't love you back.

Unfortunately the word love is used far too often or perhaps the bond associated with that word is perceived to be far stronger that it actually is.