What Does LOVE Look Like

The question is what does love look like? This is really a question for every individual seeking a healed relationship

 

•True love is two people who have seen each other in their perfection!


•It is obvious to anyone and everyone who looks at the two people together.


•No one would question if they were partners.


•When they look into each other’s eyes they cannot help but smile.


•When they are near each other they cannot help but touch.

•When they are apart in a group they will steal glances and smiles across the room.

•It is free of agendas, pure and childlike.

•It happens naturally and there is no need to set up scenarios or control anything. This sight of the Divine Spirit causes the unfoldment.


•It may happen upon meeting for one or both or it could take weeks or months to develop.


•There is friendship that is the best friend relationship for both people. A couple who considers other people to be their best friends will falter in difficulty.


•Old friends for years can go through shifts within themselves that allow them to see each other truly for the first time.


•No other person is affected by attack for love to come forth.


•There are no feelings of competition or barriers to remove as barriers simply are not seen in this state of true love.


•Both people glow from this love.


•Both people are uplifted and inspired.


•Both people improve in their health and vitality.


•True love has honesty and trust in communication and expression.


•Creativity expounds and flows freely within the care of the love.


•Laughter is essential, two people who are not laughing together even in difficult times are not in this state of Divine Love.


•True love breaks the bonds of oppression, it is freedom in truth, it offers a reflection of something greater.

Embarrassing Moments for Girls

A DAY TO FORGET

She was on her way to class when she dropped her lunch box. As she picked it up, she heard a little ripping sound, but it didn't sound that bad, so she kept going. But then, a few hours later, she was standing in front of her class, and she bend over to pick up the chalk. This time, there was a huge r-i-i-i-p! Her pants split all the way open, and everyone burst out laughing. So much of her underwear was exposed that they could read "Sunday" in bright letters across her rear end! "It's not Sunday!" one boy shouted. "It's Thursday!" I was totally mortified!

DANCE DISASTER

Her school always has a big, fancy dance for Valentine's day. Last year her mom couldn't pick her up afterward so she asked her grandfather to do it. He doesn't like to go out at night, but she told he could pick her up early--before the dance was even over--and that she meet him out front. He got there really early, though,and when she wasn't outside waiting for him he started to get worried. So there she was, showing off her cool moves on the dance floor, when she heard her name from halfway across the gym. She turned around to see her grandfather--in his pajamas and slippers! He started yelling about how late she was, and everyone was staring and laughing. She bolted across that gym--believe me, she couldn't get out of there fast enough!

How to know when a guy loves you

A man in love is a doer, not a talker--whether this means pulling a bunch of wildflowers for you, making you breakfast in bed or putting up with your Aunt Sue when she comes to visit for three weeks. A man in love is not someone you need to spend a lot of time second-guessing: men aren't that complicated!

Instructions.

1.)Watch his behavior. Men in love are probably easier to read than women because they aren't spending hours dissecting the relationship with their buddies. A man in love, out of force of habit, will do things to show he cares: pull wildflowers from a meadow in Yosemite, get a tattoo with your name on it, buy your favorite frozen yogurt (extra points for bringing it to you when you don't ask for it) and spending time with your family.

2.)Pay attention to his body language and facial expressions. If he is scrunched over and scowling, looks bored, is constantly checking his cell phone or similarly distracted or annoyed mannerisms, then you know he's not in love. You don't really need someone to tell you that.A man in love would be engaged with you, stare deeply into your eyes (unless he's shy, in which case he will look away, but still be engaged with you), touch you lightly on the arm, shoulder or hair and smile when you smile. A man in love feels your rhythm and mirrors it.

3.)Test the waters. It's always best to let the guy tell you he loves you first, but you can guage his level of interest with comments that question his future interest. If you can't get him to commit to a party you're having a month from now, that's a very bad sign. But if he's already asking if you like to snow ski, and you just met in the late spring, this is a keeper.

4.)Feel his touch. A man in love will touch a woman's face, cradle her chin in his hands or brush a hair from her eye. A man just out for a romp in the sack won't indulge in tender touches such as these, especially out of the bedroom. If he has to at least hold your hand or fingertip in public, he loves you.

5.)Listen to your heart. You'll know if he loves you. The hardest job we have in life is probably letting go of someone who does not love us. We all want to be loved so badly, that we oftentimes project feelings and behaviors onto people who don't deserve our adoration. If you are suffering--calling your friends for information, running over every comment he's made or crying yourself to sleep--he does not love you. In fact, if he does love you, you may have already stopped reading this by now. You don't need anyone to tell you what you already know yourself.

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8 Male Mysteries

Decoding the male mind has never been easy. Add a bad economy to the mix, and men have become even more mysterious and intense than ever.

Here are a few insights into the mysterious things he says and does:

1.) Withdrawal of Commitment. You live together, you used to talk about the future all the time… but lately he’s resisted and changed the subject. He might not be in the financial place or the job he wants to be in, so until he has it all figured out, thinking about the future may be a real source of stress.

2.) “It’s Not You, It’s Me.” In this case, he’s using a hackneyed old standby as a way of getting out of a relationship instead of being honest. He may be trying to save your feelings – but guess what? If he can’t do better than that, you’re better off without him. Remember that women are better at expressing emotions, while men are usually taunted from an early age for being “weak” if they do.



3. )Inside Jokes. You meet the new colleagues of his from work at a party, but he fails to include you in the conversation, and doesn’t explain any of the insider jokes. He’s nervous, and he’s not sure you won’t embarrass him. He’s trying to impress these people – so cross the room, find another group to talk to, and let him know that you can take care of yourself.



4.) I’ll Call You, I Promise. He doesn’t call. This is one area where you can’t take a man at his word. He might have gotten distracted, met someone else, or is simply rude. If he doesn’t call you when he says he will, accept no excuse apart from a family emergency. If you decide to take matters into your own hands, be prepared for a rejection. Besides, you’re worth chasing!



5.) Vague Job. There’s a high unemployment rate out there right now… and your man tells you he’s a freelancer and considering his options instead of copping to being straight-up unemployed. We all understand what’s going on in the economy, but he should save the spin for his interviews and be straightforward with you.



6.) Hot and Cold. There’s a tug-of-war showing – when you’re ready to get closer, he pulls away. You want to trust him, but it seems like you’re on opposing teams all the time. This hunter likes the thrill of the chase. My advice is to cut bait. He’s too immature, and this one almost never resolves in a good way.



7. )“We’re Just Friends Online.” This is always his response to cute women posting on his social networking pages. If your man is always flirting with other girls, he’s most likely dating several people. Perhaps it’s time for you to start exploring other options, too.



8. )“I Need Space.” You’ve been apart all day, and then your husband comes home and wants space. What’s that all about? He needs time to come down and tune out all the noise of the day. Give him the time and take the same time to do something just for you.

Cool Crush

Five reasons why having a crush is good for you.




1.)You light up. Crush sightings cause your heart rate to increase and pump blood swiftly through your system. This makes some acquire pink, glowing skin.

2.)You become more creative. �As you think up scenarios of bump-ins and stolen glances, your imagination starts working doubly hard, inspiring your ingenious streak.

3.)�You'll emit good vibes. You're more likely to forget a dreary dilemma when you see your crush. A kilig situation usually lightens your mood and causes you to become instantly happier.

4.)You're made more self-aware. As you zero in on one particular guy (or several if you wish), you learn how to weed out people who don't intrigue you. In this light, you get to fine-tune your likes and dislikes and get a healthy understanding of what tickles your fancy.

5.)You become your best self. When you're styling on a crush, you always put your best foot forward. As such, you rack your brains for ways to transform yourself into the most ideal-and crushable-version of you.

10 Best Ways to Catch and Keep A Guy's Attention

The whirlwind that is the girl-boy social scene is a lot like fishing. Like the sea, dating is rich in variety and opportunity. And once you've found a catch, you need to know how to reel him in. But more than just getting his attention, you need to know how to keep it too. Here are some helpful tips and insights on what to use as bait and how to get him hooked!

Ready. Poised. Polished.

THE BAIT: You don't have to look obscene or ridiculous to get attention. Stand out in a more sophisticated way. Get a guy's attention with a put-together look—fixed hair, classy outfit, clean nails, and so on. Enough with loud girls in tight, revealing outfits; what that really achieves is a mere fleeting glance. A girl with class makes an impression that lasts.

HOOK 'EM: Show him that you're more than a pretty face. Your inner beauty and intrinsic charm should shine through. A guy may first be attracted to your looks, but it's your personality that keeps him lingering. There are lots of girls who look good, but not many can boast of an interesting character. Be one of the few!

The More You Know

THE BAIT: Be in the know. Reading books, watching the news, and keeping up to date on all the latest (and even juiciest) reports is a great way to keep the conversation (and his fascination) alive. You want to show him that you're a thinking gal who has an opinion.

HOOK 'EM: Try to learn something from him as well. Not all guys may know the latest on CNN or the hottest trends, but you might be surprised to discover a lot of new things. Your interest in what he is saying proves that you're not just a good talker, you're also a great listener.

The Charity Case

THE BAIT: A good heart is always an admirable thing. With all the different charitable organizations around, it isn't that difficult to get involved and make the world a better place. Surprise your guy with your giving spirit. It shows that you have a social conscience whose world is not confined to the air-conditioned corridors of the mall.

HOOK 'EM: Have him join you in your charitable activities. Get him involved the next time you go on a social excursion. Not only will you be doing a good thing by adding another volunteer to the good cause, but you'll also have a great excuse to spend more time with him. Two birds with one stone! Touch�!

High on Passion

THE BAIT: Show him how passionate you are about life through your interests and hobbies. Guys are always looking for something unique and special about a girl, and your interest might just be it. Your dedication to your hobby tells him that he might someday be the object of your devotion.

HOOK 'EM: Help him find his passion. You could either share your own passion or suggest hobbies for him to invest in. Get him interested in collecting unique knick-knacks from bazaars or going to the beach and finding one-of-a-kind shells. Not only is it a way to build his personality, it's an excellent opportunity to spend time together too!

Be a sport.

THE BAIT: It's a fact that guys like girls who are into sports, unless it's body building or wrestling, of course. After all, sports indicate that a girl is into fitness and health—always a good thing.� Show your sporty side and organize games with him and your friends. Let him notice that you're a team player.

HOOK 'EM: Become his personal cheerleader. Watch his games and root for him. Your presence and enthusiasm show how supportive you are of him. This is the kind of thing that can really make a guy think: "This one's a keeper."

Wicked Humor

THE BAIT: Impress him with your wicked humor. Guys like to laugh, so pull out your funny books and research on the Internet. He'll notice what a fun-loving girl you are. Also, creating a lighthearted atmosphere makes it easier for him to enjoy himself and relax. Warning: Be hilarious, not ridiculous. Be snazzy with your words, not silly.

HOOK 'EM: Laugh at his jokes. No matter how corny (yes, we love our "your mama's so fat" jokes) or politically incorrect, try to smuggle in a giggle or at the very least a big grin. It'll make him feel special and confident that he's showing you a good time. But if he suddenly pulls out a red nose or squirting flower, feel free to ditch and run!

Make Scents

THE BAIT: I guess it goes without saying that guys like girls who smell good. It's something that we really keep an eye, er, nose on. You could use something as simple as baby cologne or the latest designer perfume from Rustan's. But truth be told, smelling nice begins with good hygiene.

HOOK 'EM: Surprise him with different scents. You may have your signature fragrance, but certain smells entice certain moods. Show different sides to your personality with the different scents you use. Not only will that keep him intrigued, he will also want to get close enough to take a whiff.

The Friend Connection

THE BAIT: Show him your social side and get to know his friends. His barkada is perhaps the deciding factor on whether a girl passes or not. So if you're chummy with them, chances are he'll notice that and realize that you'd be a natural addition to his life.

HOOK 'EM: Let him know that he's important to you too. Don't exclude him from your activities with your barkada. Inviting him to get close to your dearest friends tells him that you're willing to emotionally invest in him. Also, your girlfriends have the right to see what's keeping you from the usual group parlor trips.


Something's Cooking...

THE BAIT: Mother always says: The way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Mother knows best. Catch him off guard with your wizardry in the kitchen. Cook up a storm and show him just how much of a domestic goddess you are. Who says you need Love Potion No. 9? A home-cooked dinner for two is all the magic you need.

HOOK 'EM: Sometimes it's love that's brewing in the kitchen. Well, love might be a more advanced recipe, but both of you working closely together is definitely a great way of making sparks fly. Learning a new recipe might help you learn more about each other.


The Honest Truth

THE BAIT: Be honest about your feelings. If you like a guy, then express it. Honesty is not only very admirable but also quite attractive. It also saves a guy from playing the guessing game.

HOOK 'EM: Be true to yourself. Inner confidence and knowing who you are will earn a guy's respect. And a guy who has respect for you is one who will stay in the long run.

Decode Your Guy By His Zodiac Sign

Astrology has been around for the longest time, which is why it's always a dependable method of understanding people and their eccentricities. Of course, different signs behave differently, which is why some signs are only compatible with others. So what's your dude's star sign? All you need to know is his birthday, and you're all set!


Aries

Flashy, dramatic and daring, this dude's out to please, please, and please. This Ram loves to hang out at the hippest, trendiest places (like that newest java place everybody's�raving about) that give both his ego and status quo a boost. Throw him a one liner like, "Great shades! Raybans, right?" and you've hooked his attention.

Your celeb match: Nico Ibaviosa

Taurus

How do you spot a Taurus in the crowd? He's the one in the Ralph Lauren shirt, slacks, and leather kicks. A real class act, the average Taurus spends his dough on items of practical use, like a decent cell phone rather than on a new bike. Taurus dudes are stubborn and bull-headed (pun intended), and are ardent believers of traditional ways. So don't expect to pay your way through a dinner with a Taurus; he'd sooner strip naked and join Fall Out Boy than have you spring for the pizza.

Your celeb match: Rob Pattinson

Gemini

Scatterbrain alert! Always on the go, your Gemini guy can't wait to get things done: organizing the next school dance one minute, joining a quiz bee contest the next. The Gemini has a knack for absorbing information accurately—the next time you spill your phone number to the Gemini guy, you can almost be sure that he remembered it and will give you a call the next evening.

Your celeb match: Kean Cipriano

Cancer

Finally, a dude who remembers your birthday. These crabs are sentimental, romantic, and very moody. Although Cancer dudes look aloof and detached, they can easily swoon over a well-written song. So just because he's decked out in a Linkin Park shirt doesn't mean he doesn't have Dashboard Confessional's "Stolen" looping in his iPod.

Your celeb match: Chace Crawford

Leo

Naturally, prom kings and team captains exude this particular star sign's attribute. Ostentatious and proud, Leos have a knack for commanding respect and making heads turn. Spotting a Leo in a party is easy: he's the guy people are gathered around, eager to hear his stories of shooting the winning basket or kissing that hot semi-pro model two batches ahead.� Although Leos are affectionate and caring, they expect Zac Efron-worthy praises from you every minute or so.

Your celeb match: Jose Sarasola

Virgo

If you're looking for the Virgo, scope out the bookstore.� He's probably browsing between shelves or strolling
mall alone, looking like he's window-shopping when he's actually in deep thought. Of all the zodiacs, tread carefully when talking to a Virgo. They tend to clam up when personal questions come up during the conversation. Stick to: "So what's your favorite Stephenie Meyer book?"

Your celeb match: Nick Jonas

Libra

The Libran dude lives in a storybook world. He wants his Princess drop-dead gorgeous and his endings happily ever after. This guy would never let your beauty go unappreciated, and will spend the rest of lunch break making sure you know that. He's the dewy-eyed dreamer in the back of the class, writing the name of his crush on his knuckles or carving his and her initials into a tree. Librans wear their hearts on their sleeves, so it's pretty easy to tell if he's falling for you.

Your celeb match: Zac Efron

Scorpio

For every Nate, there is a Chuck. The rebel of the zodiacs, the Scorpio guy isn't for the weak of heart. Mysterious and enigmatic, Scorpios never fail to pique the curiosity of the people around him. Whether it be just hanging out at the mall or shooting hoops, Scorpios look like they're up to something, and look so good doing it (which is why this bad boy always gets the girl).

Your celeb match: Enchong Dee

Sagittarius

That daydreaming dude with the uncombed hair sitting in the third row? Sagittarius. The guy-next-door whom you've caught a gazillion times sitting on the roof looking at the stars? Sagittarius. The average Sag is always itching for an expedition or vacation, wherein the adage "anywhere but here" is most appropriate. So the next time you sign up for a hiking expedition, don't be surprised to see that half of the group is made up of Sags eager to get the show on the road.

Your celeb match: Martin del Rosario

Capricorn

Capricorn guys run the show and won't have you saying otherwise. Behind a successful fundraiser is a harassed but happy Capricorn. Hunting down a Capricorn is easy: look for an org-spanning meeting in school, and the guy behind the podium is sure to be a Cap. Easy does it with the Capricorn ego though, insecurity is a major downer you can pull on his sensitive self-esteem.

Your celeb match: Logan Lerman

Aquarius

Unconventional is the Aquarian's middle name. Incense burners, lava lamps, funky shades, yoga: if it's quirky, he's gotta have it. He's the Jughead Jones of the zodiac-unique and original, yet always on the prowl for a better, more enlightening experience. Scoping for an Aquarian in a crowd is like looking for Pink in a convent. He sticks out like a sore thumb, and doesn't mind it one bit.

Your celeb match: Taylor Lautner

Pisces

During the last hour of an at-home Titanic screening where everybody grabs for the Kleenex box, the loudest sniffing you'll hear in the room belongs to the Piscean guy with his own big box of tissues. Hopelessly idealistic and emotional, pulling at the Pisces' heartstrings is as easy as twirling spaghetti with a fork. Dying for a Piscean sweetie? Hang your head low, spill sob stories, and this empathic emotion junkie will be ready to whip out the hankies and play your knight in shining armor.

Your celeb match: Gerald Anderson

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How To Tell Your Crush You Like Him Without Really Telling Him

1.)Find More Ways To Be With Him.

Spending more time with your guy gives him the opportunity to discover what a cute, smart, sexy thing you are. He’ll realize just how highly you value his opinion, and he’ll think you’re one of the coolest chicks he’s ever met. Now pay attention: this is a tricky tip that must be carried out with precision—bonding with him is a surefire way to get closer to him, but it can also put you in the dreaded You’re-Like-A-Sister-To-Me Zone. Our anti-ate tip? Wear lip gloss.

2.)Be A Bit More Physical With Him!

Touch is a great indicator of attraction, but once again we must restrain our cavewoman urges—no saccharine-sweet cooing, and no anaconda-like wrapping of one’s self onto his arm. Let’s make that clear: When you touch a person, they become more aware of you somehow. Now when you start strangling a person via tight hugs, these people turn purple and die. Got it? Good.

3.)Wear Perfume

You’ve heard of pheromones, right? Those “love scents” we supposedly give off to attract the opposite sex? Well, wearing perfume will help those hard-working pheromones send your message across. Scientific studies have proven certain smells trigger feelings of love and attraction from the opposite sex. It is also the most enduring memory that stays in our minds, so at the very least, your main man will always be reminded of you whenever he gets a whiff of your favorite cologne.

4.)Bait Him

By baiting, we mean introducing the topic about the possibility of the two of you being an item, but in a light and casual manner. Like eating a bag of chips. If he hasn’t entertained thoughts of you liking him, this tactic will gently lead him to it.

This amorous move is also a good gauge of whether he really likes you back or not. A word of caution: if you’re not ready to hear a negative answer, don’t use this technique.

This applies to crushes you already know and have been good friends with for some time, so readers who are crushing from afar can take a 10-minute breather. Here’s a sample dialogue you can use over lunch, or while hanging out at the tambayan.

example:

You: (Half-laughing) Oooh, guess what? I dreamt pala last night na parang we were walking in the garden, and it was like, we were boyfriend-girlfriend!

Him: Really?

You: Yup! We were holding hands and all.

Him: Ows?

You: (Remember to stay calm and casual.) As in, super sweet! Weird, huh? (Tease him casually at this point and laugh.)

Remember to stay loose and casual during this conversation, as if it didn’t mean a thing in the world. If you start stammering or blushing, you might as well paint “I Love You!” on your forehead and dance the “Otso-otso” in front of him.

5 embarrasing moments in love

1.My Phone-y Valentine

I was shopping at the mall with my older sister. She asked me to keep an eye on her bag while she went to the bathroom. While waiting for her, I spotted my crush with his friends. At that time, owning a cell phone was a big deal so I used it as bait for him to notice me. I took the phone from my sister’s bag and pretended to walk by him while talking to someone. It actually worked! He started to make his way towards me. I pretended to say goodbye to my imaginary phone pal and turned around to say hi to him. As soon as I did, he and his friends burst out laughing. Turns out, I was holding the phone upside down!

2.Yes, Yes, You!

My friends and I were hanging out at the park with some guy pals. One guy, whom I had a major crush on, offered to treat me out. I gave him my sweetest yes, even batting my eyelashes in major pa-cute fashion! My guy hesitated for a moment, then looked me in the eye. He awkwardly told me, “Ummm… Cara, sorry. I was talking to your friend—not you!”

3.IM-agine that!

While working on my computer, a little box popped up announcing that my fave boy was online. Not exactly the quiet and coy type, I decided to confess to him that I liked him. I kept sending him sweet IMs, and he kept thanking me after each one. I was psyched because I felt he liked me as well! When he was about to log out, I typed, “I love you, Anton.” After a long pause, I was beginning to think I had turned him off, until his reply came, saying, “This is his dad!” Yikes!

4.Car Trouble

This guy and I were out on one of our first dates. When we got down from the car, I saw a big red stain all over his pristine white seat covers. I had gotten my period! It was such a mortifying experience! I gathered the courage to tell him when we reached the café. I hope he’s no longer grossed out about the whole experience!

5.Hold It!

I found a great way to get my crush’s attention! Since my friends and I usually hang out at a nearby café after school, I invited him to join us. He agreed. When we got there, my “so-called” friends decided to challenge the whole group to a game of keeping a drink in your mouth the longest. They intentionally swallowed their drinks first, leaving my crush and I as the only contestants in that silly game. They started to tell all sorts of jokes to make us laugh, but their tactics failed! Then, one of them seriously blurted out, “Oh my God! You’ve got a stain!” I panicked and quickly asked, “Where?” even before I realized it was all a trick! My beloved’s face was soaking wet because I accidentally spat my drink on him! I wasn’t surprised when things got awkward between us after that!

PLAYER DETECTOR

What are the signs that a guy is a player?

monday:

"If he's too good to be true."

tuesday:

"If they throw their money around pretending to be a big shot and all. If they constantly flirt with other girls. If he flirts with you but he doesn't take time to get to know more about you (there's a big difference), he's definitely a player!"

wednesday:

"Usually, players are "nice," smooth talkers, and they don't care much for church. A God-fearing man wouldn't mess with girls. Also, look out for how the guy's relationship is with his family. How a guy treats his sister and mother is how he will treat a girl."

thursday:

"If he's not being real to you. Girls will feel that for sure since you have good instincts."

friday:

"There's no way of actually knowing whether someone's a player or not. Even the nicest guy can turn out to be a douche given certain circumstances. You'll just have to find the middle ground between being cautious and being open-minded."

GiRl NeXt DoOr

a girl next door is

An average-looking girl, yet attractive

but even though she is like that ,
there has been no one that have at least looked at her or even notice her.

example:

Bob: Do you see that hot girl?

G:(thinking) Does he even notice I'm right here? maybe I shouldn't be the girl next door anymore.

stardust: BoY cRaZy

stardust: BoY cRaZy: "QuEsTiOn: What is worse than having no boyfriend? AsWeR: Having guys literally surround you with none of them seemingly the least bit in..."

BoY cRaZy

QuEsTiOn:

What is worse than having no boyfriend?

AsWeR:

Having guys literally surround you

with none of them seemingly the least bit interested in you.